• The French way is better

    When kids cry, it’s nails against the chalkboard to my ears. Of course, when it came to my kid, I try to understand. When K1 was 6, I dug deep not to tell him to stop crying. Since they say reverse psychology works on children, I intended to make him see how pointless crying was…

  • Kuma

    I’ve always connected to animals. From raising strays in secrecy from my parents to sleeping in the dog house to snuggle with country pets, as a kid, animals were so kind compared to the world of people that filled my day with hell at school. As an adult, I had 2 cats and always wanted…

  • Connecting Issues

    My strive for control and autonomy manifested in “anger issues”. I learned early, personal relationships had too many uncontrolled factors so the avoidance trait shifted squarely in the people column. Being financially independent with a secure job solidify my conclusion. Contention in my personal relationship was a sign of pride that all my energy went…

  • So?!

    My resentment heirloom Is named So- Dear So, I am hostile. So? I am violently opinionated. So? I am hot tempered. So? So, I survived a refugee camp, crossed international water as a toddler! So, the world ain’t a bed of roses like it is for all the pink twinkle toes! But- So, you are…

  • Einstein’s Circles

    You have the markings, I know, Of a foot soldier Traveling in perpetual earnest Circles Where do I go- there’s no room for A savior- Just enough oxygen And elbow For my sabotage You said You’ll keep coming back. So will I, then – Same circles but This time, Maybe I can bend back on…

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